In His Own Words
About Him
ABOUT ME
"For one human being to love another; that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks, the ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation." Rainer Marie Rilke
From the Love of Liberty and Wisdom to the Liberty and Wisdom of Love; Anarchist; Atheist; Poet; Philosopher; World Citizen (3 citizenships); 4 wives (2 died hand in mine from cancer, 2 I divorced); 2 children; many Lives, many Deaths, many Loves, many Me's.
My life's work has been to become Responsible for my Freedom--and I have accomplished that. I am now at the Peak of Mount Maslow practicing Self-Actualization inviting others to climb up to enjoy the View.
It is important to make and maintain enduring friendships with intelligent, emotionally mature persons of all ages, male or female. I like being useful to others by which I mean providing sensitive support for the individual's unique growth.
Emotionally: Above average EQ. I have learned to value and be responsible for intimate relationships.
Intellectually: Above average IQ. Skeptic, Humanist, Egotistic Altruist, Rational Thinker, Valuer of Objective Truth via the Scientific Method.
Below is from my website Pairing Today.
We are evolved to obtain natural happiness ONLY through intimate Human Relationships. That is my life's guiding premise founded on empirical research and my own experience. I am convinced most human destructiveness to self and others--from wars to suicides--comes from impaired or absent human relationships. Those who have enriched and enabled relationships do not destroy themselves or others. ALL of our so-called mental illnesses or diseases are a result of negative or missing relationships.
Therefore, if we would be sane and healthy in body and mind, and bring peace and prosperity to our planet, our attention and care should be targeted on our relationships.
About His Ideal Match
ABOUT YOU
"We are always trying to be relieved of our incompleteness . May we be among the happy few to whom it is given to meet our other halves and be made complete." Plato
I hope I might interest you to Dare to Pair your Half with mine and discover if we are Equals towards creating our Whole: then Care, Re-Pair and Share with me for the rest of our lives together.
I invite you to join me on the Great Adventure of Love. Let's stow our separate LIFE BOATS on our interdependent PARTNER SHIP and sail the Seas of Life, two captains at one helm knowing 1 + 1= 3.
Beautiful in and out with above average IQ and EQ, you've cared for your physical appearance and have proven your self-confident. Slender, youthful good looks, emanating a fresh, serene, love of life with unpretentious elegance and class. Comfortable with Yin-Yang differences and agree with libertarian lifestyle (meaning you value individual freedom over collective coercion). Love discussing ideas, adventurous, willing to go anywhere to find the one who proves himself your equal.
Agree: "Love is a response to values. It is with a person's sense of life that you fall in love--the embodiment of the values that formed that that person's character."
To find my "OTHER HALF" again (for I found Katharine, Half to our Whole, in 1989 who died from cancer her hand and person in mine in 1996) is a very long shot so if I can make a few "FREE FRIENDS" here that will be a wonderful second best and highly valued.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Auckland City (Grafton), Auckland Region, New Zealand | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
80 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Australasia; North America; South America; Europe | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 70 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 177cm (5' 9.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Chinese; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; German; Italian; Japanese; Norwegian; Portuguese; Russian; Spanish; Swedish | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; R&B / Soul; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Loft in the city |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Feelings about using DatingBuzz New Zealand: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
